A mother. A daughter. A lifetime of stories.

Two Old
Friends.

What if we could get to know our parents, all over again?

A mother born in 1945. A daughter born in 1975. Fifty-two questions. One year of conversations worth keeping.

A handwritten letter with a pink flower and old family photographs on a wooden table

Why I began

“Dad, I understand you now.”

The words I never got to say.

A letter that became a beginning

Before stories
become silence.

There are questions we mean to ask, and words we assume can wait.

Dear My Legacy began with a wish to know the people we love not only as our parents, but as the people they once were — with dreams, fears, secrets and remarkable ordinary days.

Now I am spending a year asking my mother fifty-two questions. Perhaps you will begin asking yours, too.

Keep their stories close

There is more than one way to remember.

Some stories begin with a single question. Others become a book, a recording, or a film the family can treasure for generations.

Four old cards with pressed cherry blossom, hydrangea, chrysanthemum and camellia

The 52 Cards

Thoughtful questions to help you discover the people you love, one conversation at a time.

Old letters and dried flowers in warm afternoon light

Life Story Service

Personal interviews shaped into a memoir that preserves memories, stories and the voice behind them.

A vintage film projector with reels

Legacy Films

Films and voice tributes for funerals and celebrations of life, made with care to honour a life and the people it touched.

The 52-week project

A rooster.
A rabbit.
Two old friends.

Thirty years between us. A lifetime of stories we have yet to tell each other.

One thoughtful question each week — and a chance for a mother and daughter to meet as two people, not just two generations.

1945 — 1975

“Not just my mother. A whole person, with a story of her own.”

Two Old Friends · A year of conversations

A conversation to begin with

This week’s question

Question No. 01 · Example only

“What were you like before you became my mum?”

Every answer opens a door to a life we never knew.

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